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You hear your housemate/room mate tearfully talking to someone in their room. What do you do? 

59%
30 deviants said Leave them alone, its not your buisness
41%
21 deviants said Knock on the door and ask if they are ok

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:iconlainwiththedevil:
It would depend, do you know who they're talking to?
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:iconunclewoodstock:
*UncleWoodstock Jan 30, 2011  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Her bf i believe
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:iconlainwiththedevil:
Generally speaking, I'd not get involved, until the phone call was ended and then I'd politely ask if everything was okay. If it was someone who I knew they constantly talked about petty personal smack to, I'd not bother with them until they felt like opening about it. If I could sense this was a much darker issue, I'd still stay out of it and subtly say later they seemed upset and if they needed me for something or to listen to them, I'd be around.
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:iconunclewoodstock:
*UncleWoodstock Jan 30, 2011  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Yea when this happened, i waited until the next morning
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:iconstannerz:
~Stannerz Jan 27, 2011  Hobbyist Photographer
Talking to someone - phone or in person?
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:iconunclewoodstock:
*UncleWoodstock Jan 27, 2011  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Phone
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:iconstannerz:
~Stannerz Jan 28, 2011  Hobbyist Photographer
I ask as phone... i'll keep checking until off the phone and then check myself.

If there's someone in person already - give 'em space.
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:iconmori-the-bat:
I'd leave them alone, simply because I know that's what I'd prefer people to do if it was me crying. I'd maybe go by later when they'd calmed down a bit and ask if everything was ok. But often people get embarassed to be seen in a state, and unless you are a someone they would talk to about emotional things anyway, they won't want to talk about it until they've calmed down a bit.
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:iconmiathebadger:
~MiaTheBadger Jan 27, 2011  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I'd leave them for now and ask later.
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